A Kink-Friendly Speed Dating Experience Designed for Your Lifestyle
Tired of going on dates only to find out they’re not into alternative ways of dating, relating, or playing? This event is created specifically for kink-friendly, ENM, swinger, and BDSM-aligned singles and solos, whether you’re monogamous, polyamorous, casually dating, or seeking long-term connection.
And forget the old-school “sit across from a stranger and hope for the best.”
Here, you’ll meet matches who are actually compatible with you.
You’ll complete a short questionnaire after getting your ticket, and our matchmaking tech does the pairing matching you with the top people in the room based on your preferences. It’s the perfect blend of online matching and real-life chemistry, without the dead-end first dates or matches you never meet.
Go on at least 5 mini-dates with highly compatible people. This is fast, fun, and pressure-free.
Whether you’re outgoing or on the shy side, we make it easy to spark real conversations in a room full of people who want the same thing you do: genuine connection.
Find Your Kansas City
Make your way to favorite attractions, restaurants, hotels and more as you navigate through Crossroads Arts District.
About the area
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Crossroads Arts District
Discover everything there is to know about the Crossroads Arts District neighborhood.
Once-vacant warehouses now house carefully curated galleries in the Crossroads. It’s here that visitors can truly take in the arts, both hanging in showrooms and spray-painted onto building exteriors—while restaurants, breweries and speakeasies round out the neighborhood that the arts built.
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